I changed my iptables and it now looks like this:
christopher_at_morgan-server:~$ sudo iptables -L -v
Chain INPUT (policy DROP 0 packets, 0 bytes)
pkts bytes target prot opt in out source destination
265 29327 ACCEPT all -- any any anywhere anywhere state RELATED,ESTABLISHED
4 240 ACCEPT all -- any any 192.168.1.2 anywhere MAC 00:1A:4D:5C:09:9E
0 0 ACCEPT all -- any any 192.168.1.11 anywhere MAC 00:24:21:53:B8:81
6 628 DROP all -- any any anywhere anywhere
Chain FORWARD (policy ACCEPT 0 packets, 0 bytes)
pkts bytes target prot opt in out source destination
Chain OUTPUT (policy ACCEPT 227 packets, 50075 bytes)
pkts bytes target prot opt in out source destination
But I did notice something, in my /etc/hosts file it had the ip of my server name bound to the wrong ip so I fixed that and now I'm getting a connection refused instead of a connection timeout.
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