Check out your logfiles (logs/server.log) Upon starting glassfish it logs also the system properties. Compare these with the log files from your production server.
One thing that comes in mind is a virusscanner. I had the experience with McAfee scanning zip files upon opening. And it sees jar files as zip files. It made my Netbeans run unworkable slow.
Johan
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