Ryan!.. thank you very much !..
I really appreciate your help! You were right !
I changed the ORB listener IP for the network address of the main network interface and worked. before that, it was entering in a loop trying to connect different ports, BUT ALWAYS in localhost!!!!!!
I think it should be different, in my modest opinion I understand 0.0.0.0 means listen for all address available, even if I did telnet from a remote host to port 3700 it was open, that is what confused me.
Anyway, now I can run it from webstart or by the command line below.
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