Send Message events do not have a user interface because the engine runs them without the involvement of a user. You cannot process Send Message events.
You can search for instances sitting in a Send Message event or define a view that includes them. To view the instance details select the instance in the search result or in the view. If the instance is waiting for the engine to process it you can add notes and attachments to it. If the engine is processing the instance adding a note or an attachment causes an error.
You can view information about the processing of a Send Message event in the audit trail.